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Harshaw · 11-08-2003, 10:40 PM

Ok, currently as some of you might know, my girlfriend is in California. It sounds like she is 80% moved there. Last time I talked to her, I could tell she wanted me to move out there as well. The thing is, I really want to, but I am wondering how to balance career and love. I really want to move out to California and keep the relationship moving along like it was before she left. But I am worried that I have been out of college for over a year and I don't seem to be moving anywhere career wise. This time I have had away from her has made me realize this. I really think the best thing for me to do would be to join the Coast Guard and let them train me in something I would like doing. I have a friend in the CG and he loves it, I have looked into it and think I might love it as well. The problem is, I can only choose one. It is possible that the CG might station me somewhere in California, but not something I would like to bet on.

Ok, so that is my current Love vs. Career dilemma. What are yours? What did you do? Did you make the right decision?

11-08-2003, 10:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
Harshaw Is mad at you. Location: Bored in Sacramento	Love vs. Career Ok, currently as some of you might know, my girlfriend is in California. It sounds like she is 80% moved there. Last time I talked to her, I could tell she wanted me to move out there as well. The thing is, I really want to, but I am wondering how to balance career and love. I really want to move out to California and keep the relationship moving along like it was before she left. But I am worried that I have been out of college for over a year and I don't seem to be moving anywhere career wise. This time I have had away from her has made me realize this. I really think the best thing for me to do would be to join the Coast Guard and let them train me in something I would like doing. I have a friend in the CG and he loves it, I have looked into it and think I might love it as well. The problem is, I can only choose one. It is possible that the CG might station me somewhere in California, but not something I would like to bet on. Ok, so that is my current Love vs. Career dilemma. What are yours? What did you do? Did you make the right decision? __________________ This too shall pass.