I would tend to agree that certain criteria must be met for a stable relationship, I have however, also found that to grow as an individual in this life nothing beats sacrifice,challenge,and pain.
In my opinion any relationship has two main benefits, companionship and the chance to teach and learn from a close association with another. While cheating is a little more pain than I personally would like to inflict or recieve, there are opportunities for growth in all experiences.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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