Telethon- it's your attitude. Any guy has the potential to attract a girl. It's that simple. If you keep saying how you're not gonna get any, you won't. If you keep saying you're ugly, you'll stay that way until you do something about it (as in, get some self confidence). Girls know if all you want is sex. We're not THAT dumb.
What do you think is so wrong with you that no girl would want to be with you?
Oh, and I basically agree with Averett. Unless there is a blatantly sarcastic tone to it, I mean what I say with something like that. If I tell a guy he's sweet, it's probably because he did something that was sweet, etc.