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diddagirl....i can give you some advice since i have been in the same boat. my boyfriend and i had been dating for a whole year, and it had been the first person i really and truly had loved, and had been completely intimate with. this person blew my mind all the time, and i loved it. then i had to move back home temporarily and the long distance thing was really hard on both of us. i know we both started feeling tied down, and i became attracted to a guy at work. fortunately, nothing ever happened between that guy and me, though i know he was interested. but my boyfriend and i broke up anyway. i would say don't doubt yourself, and you don't hafta "check in". if you love this guy enough to be with him, then i imagine he can look past that "incident" and you two can work it out. you have to ask yourself if you want to risk giving up a person you love to find something new, or do you feel as though your current bf is not worth giving up? maybe if i had had more dating experiences prior to my recent breakup, i might have seen that this one was worth keeping, and maybe things woulda worked out differently. just for your sake i hope that you can find the right answer in yourself and make the right decision for you. and remember, you're the one who has to live with the decision and ultimately be happy with it. if you're not happy with the current boyfriend, then by all means end it. i hope things work out for you, and i wish you the best. we're all rooting for ya.
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