Thank you all for the advice. I feel like I'm being torn between my best friend (if there were such things. EDIT: I just realized that there is such thing and that IS my future wife) and my future wife.
So far, it looks like I've broken down and am taking BonesCPA's advice. And hopefully when my girl says she wants me to go....she really means it.
I'm just hoping that it is only a monetary thing. But other things make me believe it isn't. He lives with his parents...and I think it is rent free. He doesn't have any car payments that I know about. And can afford to go on weekend trips to other states. With all that in consideration....you would think he could spare the extra $100-$150 for my girl.
Thanks for all the advice, and keep it coming.
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