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junglistic · 11-04-2003, 08:30 AM

ok, im not usually one to stress my problems to all of your considerate eyes. But, im in need of some advice. My gf has trouble overreacting.

Ill run down the situation; Last nite, we're having dinner at a nice little italian restaurant, we come across the conversation of camping... we're talking, blah blah blah... she asks, what did you guys do anyway. (it was 2 months ago, i guess we never really talked about it, other than when i got back i said i had a good time). So, i tell her about what we did, then i said, it was so relaxing, just sitting under the sun especially since mark had a joint, and it brought back alot of old memories smoking with him. Once i said this she got extremely mad. She basically said, are you done yet, cuz i want to leave. So we left. Didnt talk the ride home.

She is mad because i had never told her we had smoked weed when i was gone. She says im a hipicrit because i did, and i look down at my father, (who's 60), spends all of my parents hard earned money on weed and beer all day every day. I know it would be absurd for me to get mad if he did it once. But its an everyday thing.

I used to smoke alot of weed, but this was the first time in over a year ive done it. I was never with her and and she never knew me when I used to do it.

We've been together for 1 yr and 2 months, and she overreacts alot in my mind. But in her's she is doing the right thing.

and the nail in the coffin, last nite, once we got home, i called her, she was on the other line with someone, i asked politely if we could talk, but she started getting really mad, which killed my patience and she ended up hanging up on me. I called her back a few times, either she didnt answer, or she gave me some quick, i dont want to talk, *click*.

So i give up, about an hour later when she is done with whoever she was talking to she calls me, i just tell her i dont want to talk,leave me alone. She calls back, and says, i dont wanna be with you. i said fine bye. i met her outside, (we're neighbours) she gave me some crap and that was the end.

Im sorry for being so long, i doubt anyone actually read all of it, but please, i need some third party advice. Am i doing the right thing? She can be immature sometimes, and well im sick of it.

11-04-2003, 08:30 AM	#1 (permalink)
junglistic Insane	lady troubles. ok, im not usually one to stress my problems to all of your considerate eyes. But, im in need of some advice. My gf has trouble overreacting. Ill run down the situation; Last nite, we're having dinner at a nice little italian restaurant, we come across the conversation of camping... we're talking, blah blah blah... she asks, what did you guys do anyway. (it was 2 months ago, i guess we never really talked about it, other than when i got back i said i had a good time). So, i tell her about what we did, then i said, it was so relaxing, just sitting under the sun especially since mark had a joint, and it brought back alot of old memories smoking with him. Once i said this she got extremely mad. She basically said, are you done yet, cuz i want to leave. So we left. Didnt talk the ride home. She is mad because i had never told her we had smoked weed when i was gone. She says im a hipicrit because i did, and i look down at my father, (who's 60), spends all of my parents hard earned money on weed and beer all day every day. I know it would be absurd for me to get mad if he did it once. But its an everyday thing. I used to smoke alot of weed, but this was the first time in over a year ive done it. I was never with her and and she never knew me when I used to do it. We've been together for 1 yr and 2 months, and she overreacts alot in my mind. But in her's she is doing the right thing. and the nail in the coffin, last nite, once we got home, i called her, she was on the other line with someone, i asked politely if we could talk, but she started getting really mad, which killed my patience and she ended up hanging up on me. I called her back a few times, either she didnt answer, or she gave me some quick, i dont want to talk, click. So i give up, about an hour later when she is done with whoever she was talking to she calls me, i just tell her i dont want to talk,leave me alone. She calls back, and says, i dont wanna be with you. i said fine bye. i met her outside, (we're neighbours) she gave me some crap and that was the end. Im sorry for being so long, i doubt anyone actually read all of it, but please, i need some third party advice. Am i doing the right thing? She can be immature sometimes, and well im sick of it.