ariekitten - I'd add journalling to all this advice. My last really bad break up I cried ALOT, and then to avoid the pathetic "I miss you and it hurts" type of phone call I started writing out my feelings. That helped alot - made it much easier to sleep.
crayzeeredhead - you think you know your marriage is over? Sounds like you need to do more thinking!! As for closure, sometimes you have to find it yourself. I wish there was a way to celebrate the end of a marriage - some kind of marriage funeral ceremony, because I think it would definitely make it easier for people. But for now all we have is the final divorce hearing/
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