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Originally posted by jvwgtr
I think you're absolutely got it right when you said it's a dead end.
There's nothing worse than chasing after somebody who's emotionally unavailable.
Go for somebody who just wants to be with you, this other girl may just like having you around as a backup --to fill in the gaps left by her cheating boyfriend.
You deserve to be happy!
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Hit it on the head their bud, i'm in the same boat sorta as you, my girl is just not really available, but instead of another guy its like her idea of what her life should be i just don't think i fit in there so i'm looking into other girls, and if i find one that legitimatly wants to spend time with me i'll give her ago, tell her the doors alwasy open, and that you a big boy, and its not that hard to control yourself (sober an ywho) so she can still hang out/around with you. Then move on who knows maybe she'll get jelous wonder what all the fuss is about and you'll get the girl you want. and maybe a new one you find will be infintily better.