I've always been leary of the "healing time" concept... not that healing TAKES time, but to be able to say to someone, "talk to me in a week or two" is kinda weird, and has always struck me as a cover for another, larger issue.
More to the point, she may be trying to get with the other guy, or even some other random guy, and figures if she can't get him in the next 2 weeks, it can't be done, so you'll be WAITING ON BASE for her.
A girl who asks you to wait like that is not asking for space, they're asking for you to sit outside the store like a good little doggy and wait until they're done "shopping".
I'm not bitter, this just happens to be what I've always heard and experienced.
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