See the biggest problem I have is this: it's gotta be the frequency of sex that is the turn-off, right? So if the girl has had a million partners and had safe sex with all of them, and only once, how is that different than a million separate acts with 1 man?
I think that that's where some of the social double-standard comes from. Some girl or guy hears a girl go on about wanting sex and loving this position and that position and so on and so forth and can't get enough, etc... and that person in their closed-mindedness thinks "slut", ok?
The problem is, she has a boyfriend/husband she's monogamous with and fucking 3 times a day. Somehow just her lust for sex has caused someone to put her in the "slut" box, even though she's only fuckign 1 guy.
This way of thinking came about when a guy i barely know was having lunch with a female friend of mine and I. He didn't know she and I were close, and when she got up to go to the bathroom after having gone on about having so much sex and this and that, having left out the fact she was talking about doing it with her boyfriend, he turns to me and calls her a slut.
At first, I let him speak, then I said to him, "my girlfriend talks just like that, except she's referring to getting it from ME, 3 times a day, so does that make my girlfriend a slut too?" And then I explained that she also had a boyfriend. My friend came back from the bathroom, I told her what he said, and she told him to leave and never call her again. He was some guy she met at school, they were working on a project or something.
Funny thing is, about 3 days later she comes to me laughing and asks why the guy came to her complaining that I had kicked the shit out of him. I just smiled and shrugged.
MORAL OF THE STORY: Be careful what you say- but more importantly, is in front of whom it is said.
