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Originally posted by phredgreen
for the same reason it's a good idea for women to stay away from loose guys. it's an empty act, devoid of any emotional meaning, and there's a very real danger of infection from their many undocumented exploits.
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umm...phred...I disagree here.
As long as the woman is responsible with her encounters,
and she taking some pleasure with the acts,
then there is no issue.
You're placing your context for sex into another's standards.
Unfortunately...our society has a double standard.
It's "unofficially" encouraged for men to be studly,
and ladies to be "proper".
Men are more allowed to be detached from the act,
and ladies are viewed as more delicate.
I don't believe in calling ANY woman a slut
it's a negative conotation applied by those who are either prudish, unexperienced, judgemental
or even being hypocritical.
As long as a woman is being responsible for her encounters,
and understands the consequences of sex.
Then the number of lovers shouldn't be an issue.
As it should be applied to men too.
We are in a modern society, where women don't have the consequences of earlier times.
We should adjust our thinking,
Unfortunately sometimes viewpoints don't change as fast as culture.