Sleeping with someone doesn't 'Just Happen'. A: no matter how much you think you love her, if you're in college, you havn't lived enough life yet to know what you want. Think about the differences between you when you were 18 and you at 20.
B: She's still in high school, she DEFINATELY doesn't know what she wants, reguardless of what she says.
C: She's cheated on you already. It won't last. Even if she hadn't cheated on you, she will change in college.
D: You're on your way down a bad path. You showed her that you will tolerate cheating on you. You're trying to 'make it easy for her' when she cheated on you? If she wanted to stay with you, she should be doing everything she can to make it easy on YOU. When I was 19-20ish I had a crush on a girl just like you. I would have reacted to the cheating just like you. Now, a few years down the road, there's NO WAY I would tolerate that crap. -I- deserve better than that, and so do you. I say dump her. As much as you think you love her, it's just a crush. You're safe for her. She doesn't have to put out. She's NOT putting out for you, actualy. She stoped when you were making out, but she slept with her ex. From someone who's never met either of you, she's bad news.
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