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This may be the best thing that has happened to you (although it certainly doesn't feel that way yet). It sounds like you are both at the age where people really begin to change and form their adult opinions. Who you are won't change, but the way you view the world will. Give her the time off and don't really try and pursue her. Schooling is something that you can do for yourself that can't be taken away. While it is hard, it is a lifelong gift to yourself. If you can manage the time, see other women. If she comes back, it will be because she wants to and not out of feelings of guilt. If she doesn't, then you have avoided a potentially messy future situation.
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