Skysooner hit it right on the head. Make sure she feels special, make sure she knows you appreciate the things she does all day.
The time-out option is fantastic. I think mandatory talking time is absolutely wonderful, very healthy, and can only improve a relationship, no matter how good or bad, or whatever is lacking in it. Since your kids are too young to really just get left alone, put them to bed and then make it YOUR time- HER time. Just sit, talk, compliment... compliments cost nothing... telling her you like the way she's done her hair today is great and takes no effort, but the benefits are huge.
Good luck, I'm glad you want to help the situation, rather than just want to know how to get more sex out of her.
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