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mb99usa · 10-27-2003, 07:27 AM

This question is more for the ladies but men feel free to chime in as well.

Here's a little background:
My wife and I have been together for over 7 years, married for almost 4. Since we've had kids the amount of sexual intercourse we have has dropped off. She stays home with the kids and has some very stressful days with them. Thay are both under 3. Lately she has wanted to spend more time cuddling than having sex. I love cuddling with her and have no problem doing so. I would like to see a little more action in the sack though. We have not had intercourse in over a month. There have been plenty of rolling around, cuddling, fondling sessions, but none where the act was completed.

She says it is nothing to do with me and that she stills wants me, just that sex is more important to me than her. I can agree with this but I still feel it is somewhat a reflection of her feelings toward me.

Is anyone else experiencing this?
Has anyone overcome it?
Should I confront her about it or just try to be more intimate and let things lead where they may?
Could I be pressuring her too much?

Thanks in advance.

10-27-2003, 07:27 AM	#1 (permalink)
mb99usa Keep on rolling. It only hurts for a little while. Location: wherever I am	Cuddling vs. Intercourse This question is more for the ladies but men feel free to chime in as well. Here's a little background: My wife and I have been together for over 7 years, married for almost 4. Since we've had kids the amount of sexual intercourse we have has dropped off. She stays home with the kids and has some very stressful days with them. Thay are both under 3. Lately she has wanted to spend more time cuddling than having sex. I love cuddling with her and have no problem doing so. I would like to see a little more action in the sack though. We have not had intercourse in over a month. There have been plenty of rolling around, cuddling, fondling sessions, but none where the act was completed. She says it is nothing to do with me and that she stills wants me, just that sex is more important to me than her. I can agree with this but I still feel it is somewhat a reflection of her feelings toward me. Is anyone else experiencing this? Has anyone overcome it? Should I confront her about it or just try to be more intimate and let things lead where they may? Could I be pressuring her too much? Thanks in advance. __________________ So, what's your point? It's not an attitude, it's a way of life.