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The.Lunatic · 10-23-2003, 10:07 AM

Heh, I just needed to login in a school computer so i just hit the first fourm, and first post i saw so that i could go back into the memebers area, but your post did strike me as intresting, and i believe even though i'm not a girl i can share some insight with you.

1. He won't forget about you. 4 years is a long time however, and new things might be what he wants who knows.

2. What you can do and what i say is alwasys the best course of action in a relationship is to be good to your S.O. I know that seems kind of ovibous, but a lot of people get really selfish sometimes, and can really make both parties feel down. If you do your best, and he still doesn't opt to spend his time with you, and not his new friends than thats his loss not yours.

3. To add onto number two you should communicate with him, that it feels like there is some distance in the relationship. Not a lot more, just enought to get him to realize that you might be unhappy with the ammount of time/attention he's paying to you.

4. You must remeber you are not his whole life he does on occasion need to go out experience do things on his own.

5. Go find something that makes you happy take up a hobby. Rock climbing, join a team sport like softball or something, Something relaxing or fun. Who knows maybe he'll be really excited about it too, and join you in your escapades.

6. Oh btw don't have a threesome thats never a good idea in a serious relationship, i don't care how much you think you two are diffrent, you two can handel anything its still a shitty idea.

7. Recap: He still loves you! remeber that

Be good to him, be polite, and make some selflish acts in his favor every so often hopefully he'll return the favor, but you can only control yourself and thats the best you can do. P.S. Don't worship him guys don't like that.

Make sure your communication skills arn't blown. Don't do the typical girl thing where you bring up random shit that doesn't matter, just talk to him about something that he'd want to talk about, and then bring it into your feelings.

Give him the space.

Get your own hobbie something that makes you happy whatever that is. ( If its baking don't eat everything ) Oh and dress sexy for him once in a while too if you don't already. Thong, and some sheer white pants or something.

NO THREESOME!

Remeber you only have control over yourself, you can want to change people, but you can't you can want to control people, but you can't. One thing about relationships that makes them so great is you never do know exactly what the other person is going to do / think / feel. Its really fun because it gives you insight into another persons world.

P.S Do your really want to be with this man? Evaluate that for yourself. 4 years is a long time, and you might be blinded by your comfortablity make sure you know what you want out of life then evaluate if he's a part of it.

10-23-2003, 10:07 AM	#9 (permalink)
The.Lunatic Psycho Location: Somewhere just beyond the realm of sanity...	Heh, I just needed to login in a school computer so i just hit the first fourm, and first post i saw so that i could go back into the memebers area, but your post did strike me as intresting, and i believe even though i'm not a girl i can share some insight with you. 1. He won't forget about you. 4 years is a long time however, and new things might be what he wants who knows. 2. What you can do and what i say is alwasys the best course of action in a relationship is to be good to your S.O. I know that seems kind of ovibous, but a lot of people get really selfish sometimes, and can really make both parties feel down. If you do your best, and he still doesn't opt to spend his time with you, and not his new friends than thats his loss not yours. 3. To add onto number two you should communicate with him, that it feels like there is some distance in the relationship. Not a lot more, just enought to get him to realize that you might be unhappy with the ammount of time/attention he's paying to you. 4. You must remeber you are not his whole life he does on occasion need to go out experience do things on his own. 5. Go find something that makes you happy take up a hobby. Rock climbing, join a team sport like softball or something, Something relaxing or fun. Who knows maybe he'll be really excited about it too, and join you in your escapades. 6. Oh btw don't have a threesome thats never a good idea in a serious relationship, i don't care how much you think you two are diffrent, you two can handel anything its still a shitty idea. 7. Recap: He still loves you! remeber that Be good to him, be polite, and make some selflish acts in his favor every so often hopefully he'll return the favor, but you can only control yourself and thats the best you can do. P.S. Don't worship him guys don't like that. Make sure your communication skills arn't blown. Don't do the typical girl thing where you bring up random shit that doesn't matter, just talk to him about something that he'd want to talk about, and then bring it into your feelings. Give him the space. Get your own hobbie something that makes you happy whatever that is. ( If its baking don't eat everything ) Oh and dress sexy for him once in a while too if you don't already. Thong, and some sheer white pants or something. NO THREESOME! Remeber you only have control over yourself, you can want to change people, but you can't you can want to control people, but you can't. One thing about relationships that makes them so great is you never do know exactly what the other person is going to do / think / feel. Its really fun because it gives you insight into another persons world. P.S Do your really want to be with this man? Evaluate that for yourself. 4 years is a long time, and you might be blinded by your comfortablity make sure you know what you want out of life then evaluate if he's a part of it. __________________ Proud memeber of the Insomniac Club.