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Originally posted by sexymama
Maybe go on double dates together so you can get to know each other as couples and you will have someone to "lean on" while adjusting. Also, take time with your girlfriend 1-on-1, just hanging out and being friends.
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I don't think that double dates would be a good idea. My ex-boyfreind hates my new bf because he got me. The ex tried for a while to win me back (although he dumped me!!) My freind is not so fond of him either. It's really an unfair situation for my bf all around.
I have a very different set of freinds at school. I came to this college first and they both followed me here, so I had already made my connections here. Most of my freinds are on my fencing team and we spend a lot of time together. My freind from home is very innocent and doesnt get a long with most of them.
I don't like having to seperate all of my activities in an us vs. them fashion, and now it seems more difficult to me since I'm not so comfortable with them being with each other.
grrrrr, i hate being confused!!!!!
