OK, so maybe he does need some space, but in my opinion it's not good for him to be having a life without you. At least if it's secret. Is he being secretive in your opinion? I think that maybe you should go out with him and his friends a few times. That way you will be a little bit more comfortable and then you guys can bond by talking about what fun he had that night. It helps if you know all of his friends and what they are like if you are going to talk about them. Then you wouldn't really be missing out on him, if he recaps the night's events to you. It's hard for me to articulate what I want to say. I hope you understood...
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