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Love conquers all. In this case, love is not stronger than your desire for anal stimulation, so just how much love is there? If you can say you still love her, but are willing to deliver a deal-breaking ultimatum to her or worse cheat on her, you should look at your definition of love. Learn to accept her ways, and try your hand at slow progression, or you face the previously mentioned "slippery slope".
Also, keep in mind there may be a long-standing psychological factor that is what is affecting her steadfast anti-anal behavior. Often there is something as innocent as deeply-rooted beliefs instilled by parents or as harsh as abuse. Being abused in this way as a child could TOTALLY put her off of it for the rest of her life without some sort of therapy.
I hope you two don't have young children, because divorces always hit them hardest, and can affect the way they have relationships for the rest of their lives if they're young enough.
Good luck, and take care.
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