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Before I comment on this let me say that in no way do intend what I'm about to say as an attack, however I know no way to speak the truth other than plainly. Please take this in the spirit I intended, which is one of telling you what I see in hopes that you may be able to look at the situation in a different light.
Cheating is very selfish, you are considering not only risking the relationship, but also her health (the risk of std's etc.) for an evening of sexual pleasure. You made some promises to her married her, it is now time to be man and live up to your word. If you love her at all, and love is a verb (it requires action), you need to do some serious soul searching. She has made plans for her life based on your promise to love her forsaking all others. As her husband you have a duty to her to be faithful, not only because you promised to be, but because you have no right to place her health at risk, be it physical or emotional. Please think seriously about what I have said, you really do owe her that much.
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