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Are you jealous because he's spending less time with you as a result of his new friends, or because he's spending ANY time away from you? Are you afraid that he'll forget you? That if he finds fun elsewhere he won't want you?
It sounds like there are a lot of things going on here, but without some more details I don't want to say much. How much time is he spending away from you? What bothers you most - who he's with, or that he wants time away from you at all?
From experience, I can tell you that the best relationship advice I can give you is to work on being happy yourself, with or without him. If you're not certain of the relationship, then you either need to 1. leave it, if there's good reason, or 2. give up whatever unfounded doubts about it/him/you that you're clinging to that have you be so guarded. It sounds like you're maybe a bit afraid that the relationship can't withstand time apart. If you keep clinging and demanding his attention 24/7, you may strangle the relationship anyhow! It's a bit of a catch-22, and the only answer is for you to just...let go. Let him be who he is, and recognize that you are not the relationship.
Edit: PS - after hearing this, I would definitely advise against a threesome right now.
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