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Need different advice.. (relationship)
Ok, I had told you guys earlier of me and my bf of 4 years....
I know I shouldn've thought about a 3some if we were having problems, but now things are getting difficult, things are being said, and everything has been my "fault"
Ok, the problem is that, we've had disagreements on how our space should be compromised... as in "his space" and the time we spend together...
He's had friends in the past that he hung out with, but a majority of our 4 years together has been him and me..
So I would say the last 3 months he's been hanging out with a friend from work, they play video games together and watch wrestling... and this friend introduced him to his friends, and yes one is that girl that I mentioned in my previous (3some post)... they would go bowling, and just watch movies...
It's such a long story, and so many details fall in to place...
I just need advice on how to be okay with him going out as much as he does, I really don't think it's something we should break up about.... especially after 4 years...,but it has been mentioned, and thought about from the both of us, but we haven't said those words yet.. I'm sure he's been close.... We always come back to each other and say "I don't want to break up, and I can't live without you" all that stuff...
I like to have my own space too, and I do I have friends I hang out with...
I just want it to be fair to me too... I guess I'm jealous..
Is he just going thru a "phase"
Any advice????
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