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Old 10-21-2003, 09:15 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I think it's important to work on being happy with yourself, by yourself. Not like you'll never have another relationship, but this is a really good time to do some self-assessment and self-development. Emotional trauma can often show you who you are, and this is a good time to find out what aspects of your psyche need healing and what things need changing or strengthening. Reach out to people who are good for you.

I also agree with the folks who have said cry when you need to cry. Acknowledge to yourself that this sucks, this isn't how you wanted things to be, and that it will get better but for now it hurts.
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