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I agree with shannon - I don't think breaking up with him is really warranted. This is a really common fantasy with both men and women, and it sounds to me like he's being really respectful about it.
Back to smurfy's question, something in your post raised a bit of a red flag for me. You say "well at first of course I was jealous." It's the "of course" that makes me go hmm....it sounds like you have some doubts about your relationship, or at the very least about your own self-image, that would make me say proceed with caution. Going in with a jealous streak to start with sounds like a recipe for disaster. Do the 3-some thing only if:
1. you want to do it FOR YOU and not to make him happy
2. you're extremely confident of your commitment to each other
3. even given 2, you're prepared for anything to happen, including the break-up of your relationship
This could make your relationship stronger, or it could be the thing that breaks it. Or it could fall somewhere in between - either a "whew, let's not do that again" or a "glad we did that but happier just us 2" experience.
Good luck!
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