Um, I think you have, and she's said, <I>no</I>! If you were to try to tell her what you want, she might just find that repulsive, and not want you in her life? I think your options are, tell her, and try to explain to her why you feel the way you do, but this is a touchy subject for some, and she won't be thinking rationally, but emotionally. Just be truthful, and do not hide anything from her, if you do, then you would be at the curb foresure.
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