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Originally posted by rufgti
I am dating a stripper who, at my request, stopped stripping and is now a waitress. ... I sometimes feel odd when I think about her dancing, but Im beginning to get over that.
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Was she a stripper
before you started to go out with her, or did this job fall in place while you two were dating? If she was already stripping, your request was out of line for her to change jobs. She did have a life before she met you. If she started stripping after you two hooked up, then I you have a reason to express your concerns.
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Originally posted by rufgti
Ive read somewhere that this situation might be construed as a "hero" incident.
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If you ask me it sounds as a "control" incident.