If you're in a serious relationship, threesomes can be dangerous unless both of you are secure about your relationship and each other. If that's the case a threesome could be some extra spice. I had a threesome with my g/f of 2 years and a co-worker of hers. It wasn't a spur of the moment type of thing; we had a chance to plan it out. We both were curious about the experience, and agreed that it would be fun. The co-worker was first reluctant, because she didn't want to ruin our relationship if anything went wrong, but we assured her that it was all about having fun. We all went out to dinner, had a few drinks to relax all the nerves, went home and had a lot of fun. We took turns paying attention to one person, and stimulating as many areas of the body as possible. The girls were a little nervous about playing in each other’s neither regions, so I led the way at first. They both warmed up quickly though. When it was my turn they both threw me on my back, and each took turns having their way with me while the other would ride my face. An interesting bonus (for the girls mostly) concentrating on the girl in front of me allowed me to last a lot longer then the usual girl on top style. They were both able to get off a couple of times before I. It truly was great and memorable night; one that my g/f says she would like to repeat.
In talking to my g/f after the fact she said there were times during the experience when she started to feel a bit jealous, but the high (it really was a high) of it all overcame that. My g/f co-worker had a lot of fun, and was able to keep an open mind, and so far I haven't seen any attachment issues or whatnot.
Would I say our love is stronger? no not really. It's not worse either because we agreed not to let emotion become involved. We set out to have some fun, and we did. I think if a couple can look at it in that light and steer clear of the emotion than everything will be fine.
Thanks for your stories everyone! Some great one's here!
Last edited by matt_mll; 10-19-2003 at 04:25 PM..
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