Phred -- I too raised twins who's mother walked out of their lives. I watched their hurt and pain as they grew up wondering why I could love them and raise them when their bilogical mother wouldn't. They are great young men now -- but still have unresolved issues.
That said, I also recently divorced. We were lucky enough to not involve lawyers. At the forefront of both our minds was best said by cj2112.
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Your child deserves you to make an effort to be a part of her life, regardless of your issues w/ your ex. You have a moral obligation to be the best parent you can be to her.
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I agree with several others, look into legal aid. Do what you can do. But please, don't punish your daughter just because your ex is a bitch.