I didn't really have a problem getting it up my first time. I just had a problem of not lasting very long
. My only advice is for you to participate in a little more foreplay before you whip it out, maybe go down on her for a while, to get your soldier to stand at full attention. If you want to last a little longer, and you know you are going to have sex with her, try masturbating and blowing your load before you meet up with her, it might take a little while longer for you to get it up, but it will make the experience better for her, and yourself.
