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Originally posted by darkallaround
this type of thing seems to be common. could it be that (most) women are instinctively insecure?
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I tend to disagree. Media tends to affect how we feel about ourselves for one. Also - wouldn't you have a few depressing moments if you had hormones flood your system once a month without much warning and there was nothing you could do to resist their affect on you?
Everyone (Even men-you can't deny it) need reassuring every now and then. I know I have asked this very question when my SO at the time seemed like he was only interested in sex and we had NO conversation otherwise. It was a way to grab his attentiong, start a conversation and assure myself that he wasn't in it just for the sex.
Like has already been said - Just answer the question, please.
I liked the idea that RedLemon gave. I have kept a few notes of hubby's from when we were dating. Those notes told me some things he appreciated/loved about me. When I go back to look at those it connects me to him with that first love feeling once again. It would be an excellent move. You won't regret it.
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