StephenSa

Lots of good advice here. I've certainly been able to calm down and feel more at ease about the situation. I'm going to wait a week or two then calmly and logically ask her about it again in a non-judgmental way. A part of my head is saying let sleeping dogs lie but I think I should give her a chance to express her desires and needs without worrying about me freaking out. That's got to be better than her possibly bottling something up out of fear. I really do want her to be happy. If it turns out she really does want to explore this bondage thing further we'll try to work out some sort of compromise. Maybe I'll have to try it once, maybe she just likes the erotica. Whatever. All in all we have a great relationship and I look forward to many years with her. Again, thanks everyone for all the helpful advice.