All I can advise is intense sarcasm or dead calm.
I find that any bully situation where he isn't intent on kicking your ass, can be solved with some sharp sarcasm. "The least you could do after you hit me is offer me dinner" *huge obvious wink - "You know in some societies you hitting me is the same as flirting. You're not flirting with me are you?"
If that's not your style then next time he hits you make deliberate eye contact and tell him firmly to not touch you again. Do it slowly, keep eye contact and maintain a dead calm of emotion.
This is the real world. You're not in the school yard anymore, if psycho-bob wants to make a big deal out of it report his arrested developmental ass to someone who has the power to fix the problem.
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