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Firstly, to assuage your fears and active imagination of "being prodded by some other guy"- most bondage, S&M, etc. is not about sex at all. It's about pain as a form of pleasure, and restraint as a form of either dominance or submissiveness, not "i got tied to a chair and ass-fucked for an hour".
Someone already said it, but i'll repeat- she "joked" to evoke your repsonse, to "feel out" your opinions in the matter. If she weren't willing to part with that portion of her life, you'd not be with her. She's decided to hang up her accessories for YOU. For YOUR meat-and-potatos ass. lol... so don't sweat it. Love her, cherish her, treat her right. You'll be fine.
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