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Do you have unrealistic expectations of their time? How far in advance do you try to make plans? You need to be understanding if you have a few hours to kill and you call someone and they are busy. That's life. If you expect others to consistently drop what they are doing in an instant and make time for you, you will lead a very disappointing life. If you try to make plans days or weeks in advance and you still can't get the time of day from friends/gf then it's time to move on and find new friends.
On the other hand, you shouldn't be so quick to stop what you are doing and accomodate friends just because they call. Relationships are a two way street. If a friend expects you to drop what you are doing with only a moments notice and won't do the same for you, then it's time to reassess the freindship and see if you are being taken advantage of.
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IS THAT IT ???!!!
Do you even know what 'it' is?
When the last man dies for just words that he said... We Shall Be Free
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