You probably shouldn't just forget about it in my opinion. It obviously bothered you a little and from what you've said bondage seems like something she's interested in.
So have an open discussion about. Bring the topic up to her WITHOUT BEING JUDGMENTAL. I'm not saying you would be it's just that if think it's a weird thing to do that'll come across in your conversation and if she senses that she won't open up to you. So just be mindful and try to hear her side of it (why she likes it? what her desires are?).
If after talking to her you still feel like it's not something you want to try. Tell her that you feel uncomfortable with doint it at present (again, just be careful not to make any judgements on her desires, last thing you want to do is make her feel embarassed).
She'll respect your wishes. Just keep in mind that she might still want to watch those bondage erotica tapes so she can have an outlet for that part of her desires.
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