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Earlier in our relationship (before my discovery) she made a few comments about tieing me up or cuffing me, that sort of thing. It seemed to be light spirited and in a joking manner. In light of current events it was probably a way of gauging my response to that sort of thing in a non-committal way. At that time I told her the only time I was ever cuffed was due to an unfortunate brush with the law in my misspent youth and had decided NO ONE would ever cuff me again. She mentioned it another time, again jokingly and I again expressed that I would never allow myself to be restrained. No way. Perhaps that makes me boring but I just wouldn't feel comfortable. I don't think I would get excited. I think I would get nervous and angry. She therefore knows how I feel about the subject. BTW, our sex life now is great. She generally has multiple orgasms and enjoys what we do. She is happy and genuinely loves me. I THINK she understands my position and I hope she isn't thinking its something she could talk me into in the future. I compromise in many ways and maybe in some distant future I could somewhat compromise this to please her but I have real doubts. Some lines some people just can't cross. All the replies have been great and I welcome any and all advice. There are some really great people on this forum.
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