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strcrssd · 10-13-2003, 09:14 PM

As a marginally trained psych major, this sounds very much like she has a belief that causes a guilt response with the antecedent being an orgasm with another person (anything approximating sex).

The first thing to do is talk about it, if she doesn't want this belief to change, no attempt should be made to change it.

If she does want it to change, then ideally one should go to a psychologist (sp?) and draw up a self-behavior modification plan, then implement it.

If you must be cheap about it, the get a psychology text on behavior modification, read it until you understand it, read it some more, and draft up a b-mod plan yourself, then read the text some more, and safety-check your plan. BE CAREFUL, this is a mind you are playing with.

I am not a doctor, and am not liable.

10-13-2003, 09:14 PM	#18 (permalink)
strcrssd Insane Location: Rio Grande Valley, Texas	As a marginally trained psych major, this sounds very much like she has a belief that causes a guilt response with the antecedent being an orgasm with another person (anything approximating sex). The first thing to do is talk about it, if she doesn't want this belief to change, no attempt should be made to change it. If she does want it to change, then ideally one should go to a psychologist (sp?) and draw up a self-behavior modification plan, then implement it. If you must be cheap about it, the get a psychology text on behavior modification, read it until you understand it, read it some more, and draft up a b-mod plan yourself, then read the text some more, and safety-check your plan. BE CAREFUL, this is a mind you are playing with. I am not a doctor, and am not liable. __________________ "I can't understand why people are frightened of new ideas. I'm frightened of the old ones." -- John Cage (1912 - 1992)