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there was a point when I had a very brief and ill-advised bout that lasted about 3 or 4 seconds of that feeling. i suddenly found myself thinking that as my girlfriend of the time was walking up to me, after giving me a look i know to indicate forthcoming fellatio. don't ask, i could just tell. *shrug* So anyway, I thought that for about half a second, and then I asked her, "does going down on me make you feel disrespected?". She stopped, looked at me, and pushed me quite quickly and violently (but in a loving way) backwards onto the bed, ripped my pants off, and proceeded to give me the best head i think i had ever had, and still best to date.
I think if there's a feeling of disrespect coming from your partner, there are other underlying issues about you or your partner other than just having your penis in their mouth. like- if you always demand it, or always take it and never give back pleasure... it's all about the give-and-take. Maybe the disrespect you think you feel is really just guilt because you feel you don't do enough back.
Talk. With. Her. It solves most problems you'd never think even think of occuring- and usually quickly. Best of luck.
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