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Mojo_PeiPei · 10-12-2003, 05:04 PM

Sorry if this is a repeat but I am too lazy to look it up.

This is to the ladies or anyone that has some insight. So my situation is I'm 18 and never really been involved with a lady. This is what I believe is due to the fact that I am stigmatized ( I think thats a word...) as the nice guy. I have many friends who are girls, some of my best friends are girls. I have no real trouble dealing with them as friends. At the same time I find myself attrached to many of them, but I am too much of a pussy to do anything about it. I'm perplexed at it, I'm not dense and I know flirting when I see, and it goes on.

So here is what it comes down to... Is it a thing of confidence? I hate those would be "cocky Abercrombie-Jocks" , prolly cause their the ones that get the girls. They treat the girls like dirt for the most part cause they are in it for the ass, yada yada. Is it because I'm a friend??? I always thought that was a big part as far as relationships go. Does being a friend put me out of the equation? I am doomed to wander the earth alone like the Hulk? Also I think the ladies like to piss me off, I always get the good compliments like I am cute or sexy (not trying to toot my horn...) or like how I'm a good guy, but at the same time I see them go out with total dusche's. I know cause I get compliments doesn't mean that their in to me, but I would assume at least they notice me. So what's the deal, I need some help, any insight would be very much appreciated, thanks for listening and I apologize ahead of time for you reading my rant. Thank you and good night.

10-12-2003, 05:04 PM	#1 (permalink)
Mojo_PeiPei Kiss of Death Location: Perpetual wind and sorrow	The Nice guy... Sorry if this is a repeat but I am too lazy to look it up. This is to the ladies or anyone that has some insight. So my situation is I'm 18 and never really been involved with a lady. This is what I believe is due to the fact that I am stigmatized ( I think thats a word...) as the nice guy. I have many friends who are girls, some of my best friends are girls. I have no real trouble dealing with them as friends. At the same time I find myself attrached to many of them, but I am too much of a pussy to do anything about it. I'm perplexed at it, I'm not dense and I know flirting when I see, and it goes on. So here is what it comes down to... Is it a thing of confidence? I hate those would be "cocky Abercrombie-Jocks" , prolly cause their the ones that get the girls. They treat the girls like dirt for the most part cause they are in it for the ass, yada yada. Is it because I'm a friend??? I always thought that was a big part as far as relationships go. Does being a friend put me out of the equation? I am doomed to wander the earth alone like the Hulk? Also I think the ladies like to piss me off, I always get the good compliments like I am cute or sexy (not trying to toot my horn...) or like how I'm a good guy, but at the same time I see them go out with total dusche's. I know cause I get compliments doesn't mean that their in to me, but I would assume at least they notice me. So what's the deal, I need some help, any insight would be very much appreciated, thanks for listening and I apologize ahead of time for you reading my rant. Thank you and good night. __________________ To win a war you must serve no master but your ambition.