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aestivalis · 10-10-2003, 11:55 AM

There's this girl I know who has 'partial' sex with her bf.
They go as far as 3rd base, but nothing more.

The girl doesn't really initiate foreplay, so the bf starts it always.
Now the thing is, she's ok with making out and specially 2nd base..
but when 3rd base happens -- and she gets reaches orgasm...
and they stop....

she goes weird and distant on the bf, and the guy feels that he did some disservice (although it was a service!)! Like he did something wrong, and she's regretting the whole session.

Note though that the girl doesn't stop or avoid the sex...
she just doesn't initiate it, or "appreciate" the orgasm.

Can anyone 'explain' or say something enlightening about the whole thing?

10-10-2003, 11:55 AM	#1 (permalink)
aestivalis Upright Location: Philippines	3rd base play is ok -- but Orgasm makes her regret the session There's this girl I know who has 'partial' sex with her bf. They go as far as 3rd base, but nothing more. The girl doesn't really initiate foreplay, so the bf starts it always. Now the thing is, she's ok with making out and specially 2nd base.. but when 3rd base happens -- and she gets reaches orgasm... and they stop.... she goes weird and distant on the bf, and the guy feels that he did some disservice (although it was a service!)! Like he did something wrong, and she's regretting the whole session. Note though that the girl doesn't stop or avoid the sex... she just doesn't initiate it, or "appreciate" the orgasm. Can anyone 'explain' or say something enlightening about the whole thing?