I say beat his ass to show her how manly you are and how you'd do anything for her. I've done this several times and I always get the girl.
Heh, j/k... Seriously though, I have gone through this several times..
The first few times I never said anything or pushed at all and remained friends wondering "What if?" Eventually I got tired of being the friend, so I started to gently push the subject and force her to say something.. I don't know why I always got bumped over into the friends ladder, but I think it's because I was too nervous and wet to slow. Forcing the issue (in a gentle manner) might be a speed bump with your friendship with her, but you have to ask yourself if you'd rather be her friend or her man.
Sometimes it comes down to all or nothing, but you know the saying, "It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." If yall work out, it will most likely be a strong relationship, since it was based on years of friendship.
Last edited by Carno; 10-09-2003 at 07:33 PM..
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