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TinniT · 10-09-2003, 07:25 PM

I'll tell you what worked for me:

Talking to someone who knew me and did not know her.

Most of my friends who knew both of us, or had heard from mutual friends about her personality, constantly said it was for the better, and gave opinion, and didn't really listen so much. They tried to convince me that there are other people out there.

I ended up talking to an ex-g/f who moved out to the east coast (i live in California, Ironically) who knew me very well but had never met her. She was only a listener, never gave opinion of who was right or wrong, and simply asked me questions such as "how did you feel about that?" ..

I felt sooooo good after that, and i can even look at pictures now and smile and not regret anything. There's still a feeling of affection that will always be there, but it is nowhere near the depressing hurtful feeling it was 2 weeks ago.

I think you might consider going to see a counselor or a chaplin. You'll feel much better in talking to someone who will know you, and will not give opinioin .

10-09-2003, 07:25 PM	#12 (permalink)
TinniT Crazy	I'll tell you what worked for me: Talking to someone who knew me and did not know her. Most of my friends who knew both of us, or had heard from mutual friends about her personality, constantly said it was for the better, and gave opinion, and didn't really listen so much. They tried to convince me that there are other people out there. I ended up talking to an ex-g/f who moved out to the east coast (i live in California, Ironically) who knew me very well but had never met her. She was only a listener, never gave opinion of who was right or wrong, and simply asked me questions such as "how did you feel about that?" .. I felt sooooo good after that, and i can even look at pictures now and smile and not regret anything. There's still a feeling of affection that will always be there, but it is nowhere near the depressing hurtful feeling it was 2 weeks ago. I think you might consider going to see a counselor or a chaplin. You'll feel much better in talking to someone who will know you, and will not give opinioin .