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communicate with her! She may be ashamed of some of her thoughts, or think that you will be. My wife is not terribly talkative about what she wants, or what new things we can try, and I found out she thinks it sounds stupid... It's difficult to convince her otherwise.
You might try saying something like: "you know, I really enjoy the time we can get together to play like this... I enjoy the fun we have together. You've been someone that I get to fantasize about doing things with that I don't get to discuss with anyone else..." Something like that should get the conversation going in the direction of "oh really??? What have you thought about?" (here's where you get to talk about things like... I think about you attacking me and ripping my clothes off and spanking me like a red-headed step-child.. or whatever it is you'd like to try... and it's the opportunity to find out what SHE'd like to try as well...
As for being vocal, I finally got past THAT one... one night when I knew she was about ready to hit the big "O" for the first time that night I eased up.... " are you about to come" "well fuck yes, I am".... then say it... tell me.. louder! "you like what I am doing?" tell me! Louder!
a few nights of that and she LIKED telling me... louder..... :-D enjoy! don't piss away a good friendship and fuck buddy when you can easily work through it!
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