The first step in having a friend, is to be her friend. That means accepting her for who she is and where she is at currently. You have only "lost her" if you don't acknowledge who she is now. Change is inevitable. The question is, are you able to allow it?
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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