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I hate having to say stuff like this, but here goes....
One of you two has to be the adult, here.
By that, I mean that if you really don't want to lead her on and/or give her the wrong impression, then you need to make a concerted effort to send the proper signals to her - so don't sleep with her, don't hang out with her in anything less than a huge group setting and don't call her, IM her or e-mail her (as others have mentioned before).
The sad thing about stalkers (or even pseudo-stalkers, those people who could almost be a stalker, but aren't quite that obsessed yet) is that they have a mental block when it comes to hearing or seeing things that go against what they firmly believe to be true. Getting past that is tough, and often requires extreme firmness in putting yourself out of the reach of her aspirations.
Good luck with her.
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