If friends could really keep friends from making dumbass choices there wouldn't be advice columns.
You can voice your opinion to her, but beyond that it's up to her to make her own mistakes. Tell her you're concerned and that you respect her choices but you can't stand to watch her make this mistake, and can't be around her and the scummy boyfriend. If she wants help getting out or getting over him, you're there for her to support her, but you can't condone his behavior and you hate to watch her be degraded like that.
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"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."
- Anatole France
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