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Subconsciously, I think it's a "dominance" thing. Maybe she doesn't want to worry about thinking or making decisions. I'm sure he'll make them for her. There won't be any conflict, so long as she does exactly what he wants. Maybe she's just into rough sex and doesn't know that "good" guys can dish it out, too. Maybe she wants someone she can lie to/cheat on and not feel bad about it. Maybe she thinks on some horribly self-deluding level that he's a "challenge", and that she can whip him into shape.
My advice is to step back and cut yourself off from her. If she enjoys being with him, then you're only going to make yourself crazy. You'll try to convince her he's a scumbucket, and it will drive her further into his arms. Don't tell her you're cutting her off, as that will have the same effect: just don't be there any more. If she's ever destined to figure things out, inexplicably losing all of her friends (yes, you'd better tell the rest of her friends to do the same thing) will put her on the right track. (Of course, I doubt he'd let her see any of her friends from before they were together anyway. He's just waiting for the opportunity to cut you all off.)
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