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frozenstellar · 10-07-2003, 05:09 AM

a very close friend of mine, in whom i used to date, but now we're just friends, like we have been for ~18months, i've watched on as she's taken a path that is one that will lead to nothing but trouble.

she's 17, and the guy she's with is 19. now, the guy is a use-to-be mate, we had our differences a few years back, and i've distanced myself from him, however he's still under the influence that i have no issues with him.

the reason behind me having a strong disliking for him are as follows:

substance abuser - alcohol and weed mainly last i heard, wouldnt surprise me if he's taking other shit
not here and there usage either - bare minimum is daily. everytime i've come across him in the past 2years he's been off his tree
NO respect for females - he became violent to another close friend when she refused to sleep with him, resulted in a broken jaw
downright dirty sleaze & since dropping out of highschool 2 years ago has NOT done a thing

she dabbles here and there with a bit of alcohol, weed here and there (not often at all), and is generally a gorgeous girl. she's only recently overcome the breakup of the last guy she was with - who in comparison to the new bloke was an angel.

i've seen what he's done to females, she's witnessed with her own eyes that he has no respect for females (at her party, he was there with his gf of around 6months (she's another friend of mine), and he tried to crackon to another chick whilist she was there, and would not take no for an answer til me and a buddy stood in and said 'whats your girlfriend think about this?' 'oh, she doesnt know, what she doesnt know wont hurt her' 'is that so? perhaps you'd better reconsider mate, because she doesnt deserve to be cheated on'

10minutes later, he comes back 'its not cheating no more', and keeps trying to pickup the other chick. then his girlfriend comes back in tears cuz he broke up with her to have a shot at someone else.

now how the fuck does this make sense, that she'd be willing to put up with this? she saw it, she knows what he does yet refuses to be with him?

i cant make logical sense of it, i dont want to see her fall apart like she did after breaking up with the last bloke she was with, cuz i know i'll end up being there for her again when it does, after constant warning about his ways. she's come too far to have some scummy bastard fuck her over again.

and no, we're friends, and thats it. i'm very happy with my woman, and this is not a jealousy thing. this is 'dont want to watch her fall apart again' thing. nothing else.

10-07-2003, 05:09 AM	#1 (permalink)
frozenstellar Without Wings Location: Australia	watching someone take the wrong road a very close friend of mine, in whom i used to date, but now we're just friends, like we have been for ~18months, i've watched on as she's taken a path that is one that will lead to nothing but trouble. she's 17, and the guy she's with is 19. now, the guy is a use-to-be mate, we had our differences a few years back, and i've distanced myself from him, however he's still under the influence that i have no issues with him. the reason behind me having a strong disliking for him are as follows: substance abuser - alcohol and weed mainly last i heard, wouldnt surprise me if he's taking other shit not here and there usage either - bare minimum is daily. everytime i've come across him in the past 2years he's been off his tree NO respect for females - he became violent to another close friend when she refused to sleep with him, resulted in a broken jaw downright dirty sleaze & since dropping out of highschool 2 years ago has NOT done a thing she dabbles here and there with a bit of alcohol, weed here and there (not often at all), and is generally a gorgeous girl. she's only recently overcome the breakup of the last guy she was with - who in comparison to the new bloke was an angel. i've seen what he's done to females, she's witnessed with her own eyes that he has no respect for females (at her party, he was there with his gf of around 6months (she's another friend of mine), and he tried to crackon to another chick whilist she was there, and would not take no for an answer til me and a buddy stood in and said 'whats your girlfriend think about this?' 'oh, she doesnt know, what she doesnt know wont hurt her' 'is that so? perhaps you'd better reconsider mate, because she doesnt deserve to be cheated on' 10minutes later, he comes back 'its not cheating no more', and keeps trying to pickup the other chick. then his girlfriend comes back in tears cuz he broke up with her to have a shot at someone else. now how the fuck does this make sense, that she'd be willing to put up with this? she saw it, she knows what he does yet refuses to be with him? i cant make logical sense of it, i dont want to see her fall apart like she did after breaking up with the last bloke she was with, cuz i know i'll end up being there for her again when it does, after constant warning about his ways. she's come too far to have some scummy bastard fuck her over again. and no, we're friends, and thats it. i'm very happy with my woman, and this is not a jealousy thing. this is 'dont want to watch her fall apart again' thing. nothing else.