If I'm worried about ANYTHING, I can't come even if I want to. Seriously, if there is anything on my mind, or anything that makes me nervous while me and my girlfriend are pleasuring each other, I can't come at all. I just go soft and it takes me forever to get hard again.
On the other hand, I find it MUCH harder to come from intercourse than from oral sex. My girlfriend can get me off 100% of the time when we have oral sex, but I only come about 50-60% of the time when we have intercourse. I have a hard time relaxing during intercourse. I find it much easier to relax during oral sex. That's probably why oral sex feels 10 times better than intercourse to me.
-Lasereth
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