| I've read that fear of getting a woman pregnant can hold a man back.  Could that be the problem?  If so, just be careful about your bc method and enjoy.  Other than that, I agree with the above advice. 
				__________________If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
 
 It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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